Not going to lie, feeling pretty miserable at the moment, do you get one of those days where you make a comment to a post to a friend on facebook and then they take it the completely wrong way and then you say something even more insensitive and then have friend become more offensive and then call you a bitch in a private message...
I'll be honest I didn't know that my friend was being serious because he usually comes off as being a drama queen, so I was trying to cheer him up a little however he then made a comment where he sounded offended and I told him to stop bitching and commenting on facebook, in hindsight I should have been a little more considerate, he then sent me a message calling me a bitch and was surprised with what I was saying, I honestly didn't know that he was bedridden since he made no comment about being bedridden.
When it comes to having arguments with close friends and family, I'm still relatively new in that department, for the most part I get on with most of my friends, they understand my bluntness and how I express myself but I wasn't expecting a close friend to react the way he did and I was pretty shocked he called me that, which makes me think, am I a terrible person for not noticing my friend in pain?
Feeling pretty shitty now, I'm the type of person that keeps worrying about how my friends would see me and get easily upset, after my friend called me a bitch and said some stuff to me, I felt really upset and started to cry because I seriously didn't know how to react or respond, I tried to apologise but he hasn't replied back, I guess when it comes to confronting and making up with friends I'm still a novice at that department...
Josef-Eliasson
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