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Hi I'm SuperChick, AKA Drew Comika, Real name Sarah Allen, what can I say here? I love art, I love drawing, I love seeing new artwork and I enjoy everything, I also like anime, cartoons and comics! I do a few animations every now and then so stay tuned!

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Feeling miserable

Posted by SuperChick - July 22nd, 2015


Not going to lie, feeling pretty miserable at the moment, do you get one of those days where you make a comment to a post to a friend on facebook and then they take it the completely wrong way and then you say something even more insensitive and then have friend become more offensive and then call you a bitch in a private message...

I'll be honest I didn't know that my friend was being serious because he usually comes off as being a drama queen, so I was trying to cheer him up a little however he then made a comment where he sounded offended and I told him to stop bitching and commenting on facebook, in hindsight I should have been a little more considerate, he then sent me a message calling me a bitch and was surprised with what I was saying, I honestly didn't know that he was bedridden since he made no comment about being bedridden.

When it comes to having arguments with close friends and family, I'm still relatively new in that department, for the most part I get on with most of my friends, they understand my bluntness and how I express myself but I wasn't expecting a close friend to react the way he did and I was pretty shocked he called me that, which makes me think, am I a terrible person for not noticing my friend in pain? 

Feeling pretty shitty now, I'm the type of person that keeps worrying about how my friends would see me and get easily upset, after my friend called me a bitch and said some stuff to me, I felt really upset and started to cry because I seriously didn't know how to react or respond, I tried to apologise but he hasn't replied back, I guess when it comes to confronting and making up with friends I'm still a novice at that department...


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my friends misinterpreting my words is like regular for me now, it sucks sometimes. maybe give him a couple of days to chill out for a bit and then try to speak with him again so he understands you'e not coming from a place of malicious. nah you're not a terrible person, just miscommunication and misinterpreting things seem to be what happened, he doesn't hate you or anything. if he really was your friend, you'll be talking to him again soon

your friend probably doesn't care for how do YOU feel at all... one suggestion: your REAL friends will never be indiferent to how do you feel, so if he called you "a bitch" and doesn't care at all to fix things or apologise, he is not your friend... friends always want the better for you and they'll probably get mad with you sometimes but at the end of the day, they'll not hurt you. Sooooo... don't be sad, it doesn't worth it... ofcourse it feels bad but you're realizing what kind of person he is... and plz stop worrying about how other people would see you... because being yourself is more confortable and you'll begin to find out that people likes you more when you are true to yourself... so, rise up and stop feeling miserable, you're WAY better than that ^o^